I processed the loss of Andrew and Nate differently than many people. I surrounded myself with a safety net and kept my feet moving. During the days after the accident it was amazing to watch the climbing community surround Andrew and Nate’s partners with love and care. $58,932 was donated to help their loved ones move through the grieving process and get on their feet. This display of tangible love and generosity is a constant reminder to the kinship that climbers share with one another. I have gratitude for each person who donated to this fund.
Suddenly, I experienced a release of sadness and was filled with gratitude. I thought about the way Andrew had lived his life and the part of it I was blessed to share. I was light and free to enjoy the moment with clarity. As Phil and I rappelled the route I could not help but feel a healing sense of peace. It was as though I was able to share the climb with Andrew and say goodbye. We named the route Better Together.
